Kiss the ART
I just wanted to know how far you keep your mouth open when you French kiss?
If you have your mouth open too far it will feel like you and your partner are being smothered. Open your mouth up to what feels comfortable. There’s no set rule as to how far you open it. You can open it slightly during one kiss, then the next time (usually during a more passionate kiss) open it a little more.
How are you supposed to move your tongue in a French kiss?
There is no one way to move your tongue. You can either just move it across the tip of his, or you can slide it down the side of his tongue (not too far though) and circle his. Use the tip of your tongue to explore the tip of theirs. Or you can explore the inside of their mouth with just the tip of your tongue, like their teeth or the roof of their mouth, whatever you feel comfortable with. Just remember not to force your tongue all the way in or it will feel like he’s being suffocated.
When French kissing, when your tongue goes in is it supposed to go in sideways?
Your tongue goes in naturally, just like sticking your tongue out on its own. It won’t curl or turn sideways. It may go in a bit sideways into their mouth but that is because the two of you have your heads on an angle, slightly tilted.
Is it OK to suck on their tongue?
Yes, of course. There is no ONE way of using your tongue when French kissing. You can move your tongue in a circle around theirs, dart it in and out of their mouth teasingly, you can rub the tip of your tongue up & down their tongue. Do whatever feels comfortable for you.
What do I do with my lips when French kissing?
You can close them once in a while so that you can swallow. So your mouth will be open and you’ll be using your tongue for a bit. Then you close your mouth for a second with your lips still on your partner’s and then you open your mouth again. Their mouth will instinctively follow yours.
When French kissing, is it better to close your mouth once in a while or just keep it open?
Definitely close it once in a while kissing. Variation is very exciting in a kiss. Kissing only one way can be a bit boring and tiresome if the kiss is lasting a long time.
How do we switch our head positions in the time of French kissing?
To switch head positions, just break the kiss gently & turn your head to the other side. As simple as that!
How do you know when to close your mouth during a French kiss?
It will just come naturally. Whoever starts to close their mouth the other person will just instinctively close theirs also.
How do I move my head when French kissing?
Pretend you are Stevie Wonder and move your head very slightly the way he moves his head, almost like a figure 8 motion. Your lips won’t move themselves but they will move with the motion of your head. It’s like your lips want to rub themselves against the other person’s.
I’ve never French kissed my boyfriend and I’m scared I’ll do it wrong.
I wouldn’t be concerned about what other people think or say. It’s what you feel comfortable with. Some people don’t like the idea of French kissing. But being nervous about it if you’ve never done it before is quite normal. But if you don’t feel comfortable with it and your boyfriend hasn’t mentioned anything, I wouldn’t worry about it. Maybe your boyfriend isn’t too thrilled about the idea either. Ask him what he thinks. If he’s game for it and so are you, then experiment with what feels comfortable for the two of you. There is nothing wrong with asking and it.s a lot better than worrying about it.
My boyfriend and I have been going out for about a month and the relationship is great except our French kissing. We both seem to have two completely different styles in kissing and can’t seem to get our tongues in sync. What do you suggest?
I would suggest talking to him about it. You tell him how you like to use your tongue and have him tell you how he likes it. Hopefully the two of you can come to some type of happy medium. Maybe it’s not a matter of being in sync but that maybe the two of you don’t like the way the other kisses. If that is the case then the two of you will have to talk about it.
My boyfriend has a long tongue and he sticks it all the way down my throat. What should I do?
Tell him honestly that you would prefer to be kissed with less tongue. That you enjoy the feel of the tip of the tongue. Otherwise, if you don’t tell him how will he know? Tell him that you also want some variety and that you found some different types of kisses at my site and would like to try them out.
What is the general procedure to having a first French kiss?
First, cup her face in your hands. Or, you can put your hands on her arms. Bring your face towards hers and leave your mouth a bit open. Tilt your head slightly to one side so that when your lips meet the top and bottom of your lips will meet the corners of her mouth. It doesn’t have to be dead on so don.t worry about that. When your lips meet hers, because your mouth is open hers will instinctively open, too. So wait until hers are open and then put your tongue in her mouth. Use just the tip of your tongue to touch hers. Rub the tip of your tongue over hers, either in a slow circle or up and down the front of hers. Now, you can either leave your lips the way they are or you can move them very slowly in a circle over hers.
Remember, this is not an exact science. Play around with it and find something that makes you feel comfortable and that you enjoy. But remember… do not force your tongue all the way in. Try using just the tip of your tongue on the tip of hers to get the idea of how far to put your tongue in her mouth. It is very normal to feel nervous about French kissing for the first time. After the two of you have kissed a few times, ask her what she likes about it or if there is something you can do that she enjoys that you haven’t done before.
